If you’re reading this you’ve probably said these words way too often for comfort, leading to painful missed and blown opportunities. I’m not the kind of guy who can do that sort of thing. I have a friend who keeps saying these words. Need I say that he’s a great guy, but always lonely, always single? Every guy who’s guilty of saying some variation of these words when it comes time to getting your romantic life handled, raise your hand. Now slap yourself with it. Ask your mates to slap you too, Read More →

It is Saturday evening, two weeks after you conquered the butterflies and tried speed dating. You are snazzing yourself up for your date with Peter, Speed Date #8. And asking yourself how on earth you managed to get yourself into this position, wondering what to do next, because, let’s be honest, these are unusual circumstances. You are about to go out with a guy whom you hardly know, except what you can learn in three to ten minutes – that he is Speed Dater #8, likes the colour red, has two brothers and one sister, and is an accountant. Breathe… The Read More →