http://ramonthomas.com/2008/07/the-psychology-of-a-player-interview/ Technologist | Speaker | Trainer | Cell 081 4399 555 Wed, 16 May 2012 11:41:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://ramonthomas.com/2008/07/the-psychology-of-a-player-interview/comment-page-1/#comment-2091 john Thu, 04 Feb 2010 02:02:50 +0000 http://ramonthomas.com/?p=357#comment-2091 Check out the psychology of the Casanova/Player. These men are known to have very low self-esteem and so chase after shallow temporary relationships to validate themselves. Only once they become internally stronger do they settle down. The women that are drawn to them are often those with low self esteem as well. Freud adds that Players may also be hidden homosexuals and derive pleasure from causing pain/aggressive sex to woman. (This is only true for some percent of men) Great Topic - definitely worth reading about. Women should know that these men are often NOT such great catches... Check out the psychology of the Casanova/Player. These men are known to have very low self-esteem and so chase after shallow temporary relationships to validate themselves. Only once they become internally stronger do they settle down. The women that are drawn to them are often those with low self esteem as well.
Freud adds that Players may also be hidden homosexuals and derive pleasure from causing pain/aggressive sex to woman. (This is only true for some percent of men)
Great Topic – definitely worth reading about.
Women should know that these men are often NOT such great catches…

]]> http://ramonthomas.com/2008/07/the-psychology-of-a-player-interview/comment-page-1/#comment-2090 Smart’s Hot Spot » Blog Archive » 1. Why do some men decide to become players? Tue, 16 Sep 2008 23:06:10 +0000 http://ramonthomas.com/?p=357#comment-2090 [...] Most players don’t decide to become players. They just find they are naturally good with women i.e. they understand how to make a women feel good and this naturally creates attraction. Players make up a small, very small fraction of men. Those who are motivated to become pickup artists (or players) do so out of frustration and lack of success with women growing up. For example, Mystery, the most revered pick-up artist in the world was a nerd, introverted and into computers growing up. He transformed himself by becoming a stage magician and using this to launch his career as a professional pick-up artist. He is the mentor of Neil Strauss, author of The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artist (2005).Read more » [...] [...] Most players don’t decide to become players. They just find they are naturally good with women i.e. they understand how to make a women feel good and this naturally creates attraction. Players make up a small, very small fraction of men. Those who are motivated to become pickup artists (or players) do so out of frustration and lack of success with women growing up. For example, Mystery, the most revered pick-up artist in the world was a nerd, introverted and into computers growing up. He transformed himself by becoming a stage magician and using this to launch his career as a professional pick-up artist. He is the mentor of Neil Strauss, author of The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artist (2005).Read more » [...]

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