David X is a seduction guru or dating coach from Montreal, Canada. He first came into wide prominence because he was featured on the David DeAngelo Mastery Series and later recorded another in Double Your Dating Interviews with Dating Gurus. Anyway I have been greatly influenced by his attitude alone. And now that I have extended an invitation for him to join me in South Africa, it’s simply a matter of time before you can also meet and interact with him.
David X Rules To Live By
1 – Don’t care what she’s thinking! That doesn’t mean don’t try to understand women in general, it means don’t care what a specific chick is thinking at any specific time. Just don’t care. If you do, you’ll be thinking for 2 people while she may very well be thinking for nobody. Just let it go. What you may be thinking about what’s on her mind is ONLY what you think is going on, most likely totally wrong anyway. Stop thinking what she’s thinking and stop thinking FOR her. You’ll end up with less worries, have twice the brainpower available for yourself, and will come across as more direct and powerful.
2. Don’t forget rule #1
3. Follow through. That means, if you say you’re going to do something, do it. If you get her worked up over something you are going to do with or to her, follow through. If you don’t follow through, women will hate you for it.
4. Have control. Keep control. You either have control or you don’t. And if you have control, you can either keep it or not. So when you have control, keep it.
5. Make rules and stick to them. These are YOUR rules. Things like “I don’t tolerate no-shows.” or “I’ll say something ONCE – I do not repeat myself.” Don’t be afraid to tell chicks your rules as long as you know you won’t break those rules in front of them. Most guys don’t have any rules so you will, at minimum, set yourself apart. ( note: this means you may need to think what your rules actually are )
6. Don’t break your own rules, ever. Once you break one of your own rules in front of a chick, you will begin lose control of your situation with that chick.
7. Have a structure and stick to it, no matter what. Be consistent. This also relates to having a set of rules and sticking to it.
8. When part of your structure doesn’t work consistently, analyze that part, figure out why it doesn’t work, and repair just that part. Don’t replace your whole structure just because one aspect of it doesn’t work right. Fix just that part and keep improving your structure over time.
9. Be aggressive and direct when initially approaching chicks. Don’t beat around the bush. Chicks don’t have a clue why you’re there – tell them. Just don’t be crude about it.
10. Don’t lie, but you don’t have to give them the whole truth, either. Never lie to a chick – it’s not worth it. The truth is always better and it’s easier to remember. “The best lie is the truth.”
11. Be decisive and lead. Chicks need to be lead. They don’t want an indecisive pussy. Don’t say, “I don’t know… what time is good for you?” Say “I’ll be there at 6 O’clock. Meet me then.” Don’t be afraid to be a little late. They hate it when you’re early and hate you even more when you’re right on time. Make them wait a bit. They will respect you. If they disrespect your time, drop them.
source: Fast Seduction
