How to get rid of your Shy Guy image

If you’re reading this you’ve probably said these words way too often for comfort, leading to painful missed and blown opportunities. I’m not the kind of guy who can do that sort of thing.

I have a friend who keeps saying these words. Need I say that he’s a great guy, but always lonely, always single? Every guy who’s guilty of saying some variation of these words when it comes time to getting your romantic life handled, raise your hand.

Now slap yourself with it. Ask your mates to slap you too, cos that attitude is killing your chances of finding the kind of fulfilment you genuinely want when it comes to women.

What you have is a self-limiting belief. This negative belief about yourself is affecting the attitude you project to the world around you. It is defining your identity by marking you as a man who expects a woman to choose him (from all the options open to her), by pitying him, by feeling sorry for his loneliness, to see his golden qualities and select him despite all the other men out there who are all willing to go out and demonstrate to her that they have the qualities she wants in her ideal man. Seriously, do you expect to get a job by failing to go for the interview? Do you expect the interviewers to notice you as you walk by in the street while they sift through candidates that are making their best pitch for the position? Keep dreaming.

Under those conditions you have to take the jobs you get - NOT the ones you choose.

Women look for strength in men, they search for certainty, the willingness to act - three things that are clearly missing in your display cabinet. When it comes to the dating game, attitude is aptitude.

What we believe, we make true. If you aren’t able to generate a good male display you will never have choice with women.

When you look deep inside yourself, what are you projecting?

To get help contact Lloyd De Jongh from Social or Single

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