My favourite radio jock, Tom Leykis, featured a story “Better with Age” originally published in the New York Post. This is a fascinating overview of views espoused by Leykis. I am 100% in agreement with this based on my own experiences.
Here’s the deal. I’m currently 32, and before I reached 30 I dated a few women over 30. There were good relationships in most cases. However, there has been many women I’ve met in their 30s and they are either obsessed with their careers or bitter about past relationships. I avoid both of these kinds of women like the plague these days. We’re all very busy people and when I’m looking for love, I do not want to compete for a woman’s attention. You will also notice how these career women exhibit masculine traits, which in fact is what helped them achieve their success in their careers.
Anyway my policy for the last 3 years has been, and will continue indefinitely into the future, not to date women over 30. There is absolutely no reason to date women your own age. The scientists in the above mentioned story cite various benefits for men. Here’s an extract:
“Scientifically speaking, once people can no longer reproduce, they cease to have a biological purpose. For women, the “wall of death” age, as evolutionary theorists so cheerfully call it, is about 50. But men - and here’s where the testosterone kicks in - can reproduce into their late 70s, so long as they have good genes and, well, good equipment.
So, when an older man mates with a young woman, he’s essentially postponing death. And his long-life genes - you know he’s got them if he can have kids at that age - get passed on to his children.”
One of my favourite scientists, Dr Helen Fisher, anthropologist and author of Why We Love says, “Women are choosing the men they want to marry - they aren’t being selected.” What she means is that these younger women understand the benefits of older men. So remember that your value as a man just keeps going up over time.
Some of the benefits my younger girlfriends experienced dating me because I have spent so much time educating myself on dating and relationships:
- they constantly learn from me
- encouraging independence in them
- removing or reducing their sexual inhibitions
- helping them open their hearts
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