This is a great little practical tip from Brent Smith, an American dating coach on what frame of mine you should have when you’re out socialising and meeting new people. It can be overwhelming if you are brand new to taking charge of your dating life but give it a try anyway. Imagine how easy it is when you’re the owner of a club or bar, to meet people. You’re always checking how people are doing, what they need and you also do a lot of introductions. I have found introducing people even in business networking can be a vital link to establishing credibility and making people feel at easy. Remember most people are anxious in social settings so you are not alone in journey to expand and enhance your social life.

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I’ve just signed up for a monthly podcast with American Dating Coach Brent Smith. Brent Smith was first interviewed on the David DeAngelo Advanced Series. And after a while he launched his own website over at Absolute Power Dating which allows you to subscribe to his short and powerfully direct ideas on retaining your power in dating and relationships with women. Brent has some of the best advice I’ve ever found. And it’s all about being a natural, being social and open to new experiences. On his MySpace profile you can access archives of his newsletter re-posted as blogs.

So here’s a short video clip of him followed by some great advice about not limiting your conversation to talking to women but also talking to men.

If you’re limiting your interactions to women only, you’re missing the boat. Whether you need
a new wingman or just want to look social, talking to men is essential. Some of the greatest
contacts I’ve made and the greatest experiences I’ve had are due to speaking to other men.I truly believe that you’re only one interaction away from everything you want. The problem is that you don’t know which interaction it will be. I proved this theory most recently when I was
waiting for a client at the bar. An older gentleman came up to order a drink and the conversation went like this:

Me: How’s everything?

Him: Everything’s great. You?

Me: I’m awesome. Just waiting for a friend. Where are you from?

Him: Boston. You?

Me: Here. What’s on the agenda tonight?

Him: I’m going to the Maxim Magazine party with a bunch of models and celebrities…would you like to join us?

Welcome to my life. I have hundreds of stories like the above and it’s one of the reasons that
my life is like an adventure every day. I never know what’s going to happen.

Want to know how to do this on MySpace or Facebook?

Subject: How’s Everything?

Body: Hey (name), I know it’s a little weird getting an email from another guy, but I’m seeking
male friends who share my passion for women. As you can see from my page, I’m building a great social life. Maybe we’ll hang out sometime, talk to women, have a few laughs and drinks. Give me a shout back if you’re interested.

Cheers,

John

P.s. If you’re not great with women, that’s cool too. I can help point you in the right direction.

Try it and let me know what happens!

Connect with Brent Smith through his Myspace Profile here.

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