Leykis 101 – Never Date Single Mothers

Tom Leykis 101People are usually pissed off by this one. I also have personal experience with dating single mothers and these days I avoid them completely. Suffice it to say I have been there, tried it, and found it does not work for me.

Here’s the Leykis 101 rule on why you should never date single mothers.

Why? You already know their stance on abortion: they won’t have one. Don’t risk paying vaginamony or child support. Her kids will always be #1 in her life, and do you really want to take second-place to a woman? I didn’t think so. Why support another man’s mistake? How do you know she’s not looking for a support figure? Or someone to support her financially? Think of all that, and realize that the odds are stacked against you. She’s already had one mistake. She won’t go for the Hail Mary (more on that below). The last guy didn’t stick around. Why should you?

This isn’t to say that some of them aren’t very nice, have been screwed over by ex-husbands, or would be very great mates. But if you’re just looking to get laid, they are a definite off-limits. More than likely, you’re hooking up with a girl who wants another try at something she messed up the first time. With the hostility of today’s legal system towards men, you just don’t want to take the chance.

Leykis insists that some men have been ordered by the courts to pay child support to their former wives, even though they were not the biological father of her children. This, he asserts, financially ruins the men for many years making them unable to start a new life with another woman or enjoy the money they earn.

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Leykis 101 – No Means No!

Tom Leykis 101Now this is a Leykis rule which I think everybody can 100% agree with. It’s important to keep in mind that this rule is especially important with the rise of violent crimes against women. Many men are not able to express themselves and have a warped sense of reality i.e. they want to believe in the fantasy that a women who says “no” is playing hard to get. In reality it’s just not worth it…

Here’s the rule…

Regardless of the situation, when a woman says NO, stop whatever you are doing or about to do and get out. Even if you are in the middle hot steamy sex and she says No, you stop what you’re doing and get out.

  • No does not mean she is playing.
  • No does not mean just this one time.
  • No does not mean she consents to sex.

The laws mostly favour woman and will very rarely will it protect a man’s right. Men do not have the same luxury as innocent until proven guilty. Men are tried, labelled, and accused with little discretion.

If a woman cries out rape you will not past GO, you will not collect $200.00, but you will go directly to jail. It is not worth spending the next 10 years in jail and living the rest of your life as a sex offender.

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Leykis 101 – Spending Limits on Dates

Tom Leykis 101This is first of a series of Leykis 101 rules I’m republishing with some comments to put it into context for guys in South Africa. Upon some reflection I decided that R200 is a fair equivalent to the US$40 limit on a date. As you’ll know R200 is one of the options on a ATM in South Africa. As the argument goes spending more on a date is not going to make a woman like you more. So decide on a limit for yourself and stick to it.

This rule reminds me of something a good friend of mine, who happens to be an accountant, said once. In most cases guys are spending money on women because they want to have sex with them. So it instead of spending money getting into a club and buying drinks for women, you should instead just go find a prostitute and get it over and done with. I do not agree with his suggestion because as I have progressively improved my skills with women and dating I have spent less and less money and get better and better results. If you’re a guy who’s spending to much on women sign-up for my coach programme.

Here’s the full explanation of this rule. Where you see $40 think R200!

Leykis 101 students are cautioned against spending more than $40 on a date. The reasoning behind this is Leykis’ opinion that more money spent during a date will not necessarily lead to a better chance of sex, contrary to the belief of most ‘uninformed’ men. If the person a student is dating does not want sex by the third date, a Leykis 101 student is instructed to “dump that bitch”. Leykis asserts, as a matter of convenience to his students, that if a woman doesn’t have sex with them by their third date, it means she has no intention of ever doing so.

If you have to go on several dates before reaching your goal, this can make girls very expensive. How do you do this? There’s several ways to cut costs. If you are going out to dinner, eat first. Then at dinner, just order a salad or bowl of soup. What girl is going to eat more than the guy, especially if it’s the first dates? Does she want to look like a little piggy in front of him?

Try to avoid the dinner. When you’re asking her out, say something like “Well, what time are you eating dinner?” She might think you’re asking her to dinner–but no. When she gives an answer, like “Oh, I was thinking about 7:30,” you make your move. Say, “Ok, and about an hour and a half to eat, I’ll pick you up at 9, and we can get some drinks?”

You’ve done it. She’ll probably look dumbfounded for a second, or think that you are a little “dense,” but you have just won. That’s an entire dinner you don’t have to pay for. The money can be better spent on buying her liquor and getting back to her place for some fun.

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Leykis 101 – Three Dates Rule

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I mentioned this Leykis 101 rule in interview with Sunday Times last year. Most of the critics jumped on this because it implies having sex with many different people. The journalist never mentioned that I, like Tom Leykis, always recommend using a condom. It simply comes down to setting some clear boundaries for yourself as a guy so you don’t get suckered into the “let’s just be friends” category.Here’s the rule…

This one can be the hardest to follow, but abide by it. Girls know within the first 5 minutes how far they will go with you, and will probably do so at the earliest possible time. If you’ve been crossed off the “I’ll sleep with him” list, it’s very very difficult, and time consuming to get back on it.

Your time is better spent chasing new prospects. If you’re on the list, you can still screw it up by being a jackass. If nothing’s happened in 3 dates, it’s time to move on. The chances of you sleeping with her by now is very low. The only time you should see her again is if there is guaranteed sex. Continuing to pursue her will just cost you more money and waste more of your time.

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