Two things women should be aware of before moving in with a man

This is a some comments that was published in Move! magazine.

1. Discuss Money Matters

One of the most common mistakes people make in merging their lives is not to discuss money. And one of the biggest causes of break-ups and divorces in general is disagreements about money. Part of this discussion should include what each will do. So for example if one is doing the cooking, the other could do the dishes and vice-versa. Write out a clear agreement on how money will be spent and how you will split your responsibilities around the house.

2. Have a Backup Plan

Nothing last forever. So be prepared for the reality of things not working out. Think ahead and plan ahead. Make sure you do not cut ties with friends and family now that you are moving in together because they will be part of your backup plan when you need them. You do not want to alienate them. Have some savings put away or have a contingency plan so you can act quickly.

The biggest thing to remember is to be pragmatic about moving in together. Love can be blind but don’t let yourself get the short end of the stick.

Also checkout It may be a mistake to live together before getting married.

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