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Monthly archive July, 2005

A truth monitor for online dating

Bill1852 has a "very middle-aged body topped with a fat balding head," which may be true but seems almost cruelly over-descriptive.Emiss2004, on the other hand, is not only not "a spiritual student from Sweden," she is, according to someone who dated her, "actually an escort who will con you out of your cash for her 'tuition.' " The world of online dating and Internet personal ads has never been known as a bastion of honesty. It's more a place where voluptuous is considered a fair synonym for obese, and where that pesky wife and kids somehow never make it into the Read More →

Real Women Seek Dates, Must Love Technology

The women here - these daters - look familiar. You know the type. Trim, breezy, frank, supremely at ease making confessions to cameras. They're recognizable anywhere now: reality-show Jens and Amys, spirited representatives of that plucky work force that dutifully fills the girls' slots on offerings from "Blind Date" to "The Apprentice" to "Beauty and the Geek." ABC launches Hooking up which follows women online datingOh, but not quite. With cutie graphics, a catchy name and a setup that maximizes the chances that characters will have sex, "Hooking Up" sure looks like reality Frappuccino. But it's Read More →

Any Dummy can date Online: Online Dating for Dummies

Buy Online Dating for Dummies from Kalahari.netFor those already familiar with the 'for Dummies' books, this instalment will come as a rather comfortable guide to yet another of life's great trials: dating. In this case, of the Internet variety. No matter for those who don't though. The book is a comprehensive, easy to understand introduction into a foreign and, no doubt, terrifying new world. One of the best advertisements for the book is its authors. Both have not only tried online dating but, in fact, found their lifelong partners, each other, Read More →

Batman Begins

Batman Begins Christopher NolanWell tonight I watched Batman Begins with my little sister who is visiting me for the June school holidays from Uitenhage. This is a great movie and I recommend everyone to go and watch it because of it's authentcity. Christopher Nolan, who also wrote and directed the amazing film, Momento, has brought Batman to life like Joel Schumacher could only dream. The character is dark and deep and Christian Bale is superb as the Dark Knight. For more on the Batman the comic book Read More →

Open Letter to Brad Pitt the Casanova

Dear “Brad”

Brad PittIt seems you have a reputation for being a self-styled Casanova. Unfortunately, in this case “self-styled” is a euphemism for delusional. So I am writing this letter in the vain hope that you may realise the flaws in your dating approach. However, this is doubtful. For the nature of your delusion is such that you think any attention is good attention. Rather, this letter is intended to provide some very basic dating advice to some very misguided souls, based on your blunders. The advice may seem rudimentary Read More →

Dr Paul Dobransky on Serendipity and Singledom

Dr Paul DobranskyHere's a great article by my friend Dr Paul Dobransky... Like many of you, I am a “Yuspie”, that new term for the Hugh Grants and Bridget Joneses of modern America—short for Young Urban Single Professional. We went to college, likely got several degrees more after that, bought a house, found career success, then suddenly found ourselves in our late twenties, thirties, or forties still single. I’m a doctor, public speaker, author, and media personality, and still single. However, what many of you worry-worts may not guess Read More →
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