A blind girl

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, ‘If I could only see the world, I will marry you.’

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her, ‘Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?’ The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn’t expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: ‘Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before
They were yours, they were mine.’

This is bow the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations..

Life Is a gift. Today before you say an unkind word – Think of someone who can’ speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat..

Before you complain about your husband or wife – Think of someone who’s crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today before you complain about life – Think of someone who went too early to heaven…

Before whining about the distance you drive think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and think: you’re alive and still around..

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I PRAY THIS MOVES AROUND THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE…

Healing a broken heart

This article is from one of my guest bloggers and fellow dating coach Tuming Lee:

Tuming Lee Female South African Dating CoachIf you fall head over heels in-love with a guy and he drops you for another girl who happens to be cuter than you… Don’t be in a hurry to cry him a river just yet, instead of crying, take out your notebook and write down the reasons you think he wasn’t man enough for you.

You may cry as you are writing your list, that’s okay, but don’t cry for too long, life is too precious to be wasted entirely on an idiot of a man.

Yes, you guessed right. This break up article is not your typical, let’s-get-the-tissues-out, throw-a-pityparty type of session, it’s about changing your view and seeing the humour in the whole thing and laughing at ourselves for a change. I am done crying over a man, and I wish you’d stop crying over your ex too. He is not worth it, because if he were, he would have respected you enough to not cheat on you.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You deserve better in every way.

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Move magazine interview about other women

Move magazine interview about other women

Recently I was asked to answer some questions for Move magazine. I normally wait until after they go to print before publishing it on my own blog.

That other women

Question – I met this guy last year in May we started dating in June. The problem started when his ex- girl friend phoned him and yelled at me saying crazy things. one day I was at the guy’s place and when I got there she came and wanted to start a fight with me and when I asked the guy about her he said she just a crazy woman because she even sends his parents sms’s saying stupid things she even calls every day but when she calls she just keeps quiet. Now what I want to know is will she ever get used to the fact that it’s over between them because she has even started threatening the guy.

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