When Women Are Like Men
Today I went to the gym, and halfway through my workout, I saw this amazing woman. She was so elegant and she was so ladylike. Wearing a floral dress and having her hair tied in a ponytail down the back of her neck. She was also wearing a shoe with a heel that accentuated her ankle and calves to some extent. The dress came to just below her knees. Carrying her bag and walking so gracefully through the gym as if she were floating on air. A sight that is seldom seen these days, after the Women’s Liberation Movement changed the role of modern Western women forever.
The great spiritual teacher of our time, Osho, as well as David Deida, explains that the feminine mysteriousness is what creates the ultimate attraction between a man and a woman. As women lose their femininity, they become unnatural. Women should be equal, but similarity should be dropped. Osho says they should become as dissimilar as possible, keeping their uniqueness as women. When they become more and more feminine, the mystery deepens. So much can be learned from the simplicity of earlier life. So I say to all women reading this, if you’re unhappy in your dating and relationships, become more feminine. Do whatever it takes to embrace this, and you will make significant progress in the happiness you will enjoy in the future.
